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How does a superhero find love?

How does a superhero find love?

A male subscriber wrote me this letter expressing his personal views on being single at 40.  Here’s what he thinks.  Dear Cheryl, We’ve all heard the quote “Women are from Venus and Men are from Mars” and as my years pass the wisdom of this expression rings truer. Regardless of what side of the fence you sit on, the one thing that I am certain...

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DBT – Dating by texting

To date these days we need a whole new set of skills.  It’s making me crazy that the language of romance has been reduced to 3 – 7 capital letters in the form of acronyms. Text is taking over and RMUBAR – Romance is messed up beyond all recognition! MOTOS N2M MOTSS should learn that texting is a CWOT and will result in CUATU! NISM...

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Online dating from Costa Rica!

Online dating from Costa Rica!

Picture this! The Costa Rica Pacific coast… I’m at the magnificent Hacienda Panilla Resort waking up to a glorious day of sunshine.  I get dressed, grab a little breakfast with my son and off to the beach. I’m on vacation, participating in a fabulous fitness retreat organized by my gym, Victoria Park in Montreal. We kick off on Day one with what would become the regular 9am...

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Mr. Wonderful.

Mr. Wonderful.

The man that almost stole my heart and my blog! I’ve met a man online. He’s a great guy.  But who would have thought a wrench could alter my plans to find love.  This wrench is a fabulous man. Oh no….Wait, not yet! I’m supposed to meet you in 6 months or so and then write about how we slowly fall in love and live...

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No Regrets Tattoo

Regrets, should they spell out our life? Meet Brandon and Nicole Far. They are newlyweds and they’re celebrating their nuptials in Costa Rica while I am here travelling with my son, waiting to finalize my divorce.  It’s kind of ironic that our lives are at two complete ends of the spectrum, yet we share a philosophy of life. Both Brandon and I believe in the...

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Happy being single?

Someone told me that people are happy being single. Are we? Or do we just say we’re happy because we are afraid or shy about admitting that we wish we had someone in our lives. If we want someone to be with and for whatever reason, there is no relationship at this moment in our lives; does it mean we are not desirable? I think...

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What was the computer thinking?

What was the computer thinking?

  Preparations for this website are going well.    I have a check list of things I still have to do: Get in touch with women like me…check Get in touch with matchmakers …check Sign on to online dating services… check Check out who might be a good match for me….. check??? On this particular online dating site –  Step four on the “find your mate...

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