Envision this: You’re in your late twenties and meet the man of your dreams. You live your entire thirties with him, marry and think that this is it. Until one day, it ends. You’re now 39 and single again. How did that happen and what do I do? You don’t even know where to begin. You’re absolutely terrified, lost and feel a sense of loneliness that is foreign to...
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Cheryl’s “Triple A” crash course getting the committed relationship you want In order to succeed at relating, dating and mating, here’s Cheryl’s equation that you need to know in order to graduate with an ‘A’ in each subject! Attention You have to know how to get it. Attraction You have to know how to keep it. Affection Are your feelings deep enough for this person...
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What your hosiery says about you. I was getting dressed the other day and when I opened up my drawer to choose my nylons, it struck me: How I dress often reflects my intention of the day. Right down to my undergarments! I was amused at how a simple set of nylons could exude a wide range of emotions and be interpreted by myself and...
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A colour palette for the uncommitted. Singledom comes in many different shades. The intensity of the colour often depends on how long it took us to achieve the tone and how much tint was used. We have to remember that when we start blending palettes. A 52-year-old coming out of a long-term marriage with two children sees things and feels differently than the 39-year-old that...
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The forgotten language of love in the digital age “You light up my life!” It’s a phrase from days gone by (we used to say) when the person we liked would pick up the phone and call our home phone. Sadly, today, the objects of our affection light up our screens! We don’t communicate properly anymore! How are two people supposed to build an intimate...
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