“How can you improve your sex life from inside out?”

Does the desire to have sex diminish with age or is it a side effect of our physical changes?

Sexual health is important at any age as the desire for intimacy is timeless. Feeling sexy inside out, whether we are  in a long term relationship or still looking for that special partner is a critical part of our self confidence.

Sex may not be the same as it was in our 20s (many think we get better) however, for some individuals the effects of aging brings forth certain physical challenge like erectile dysfunction and vaginal dryness caused by menopause.

Cheryl: “For some women, menopause has kicked in and they have certain physical challenges… These things can really stop us from living the kind of relationship that we want…that we deserve, so there are things out there that can help us…”

As women, our estrogen levels decrease when we approach menopause which leads to vaginal dryness and slower sexual arousal. Emotional stress can also change our sexual appetite. Changes in body shape and size due to natural aging and having children can trigger one to feel less desirable sexually. As women, we love to feel attractive and sexy at any age. Fear not, that biological clock does not have to stop you from wanting to look and feel your best!

As for men, testosterone plays an important role in their sexual experience. As men age, erectile dysfunctions become more common; it takes longer for the penis to erect and there’s also a loss of firmness. So overall, it may take longer to achieve all the sexual experiences that were once flowing, on point and on track.

Dr. Steinberg: “The men and women don’t see the problem, they just think oh, I’m just aging so they neglect it and put if off…it tends to become a much bigger problem…this doesn’t have to be ignored and can be treated…”

Let’s not kid ourselves, as we get older, gravity takes its toll on both sexes. As we can’t help aging, can we find ways to turn back the clock to keep our sex lives alive and full of passion?

The answer is YES! Thanks to modern day science and technology there are ways to adapt to our body’s changes and keep feeling full of life in every way!!! Wink…It’s just a matter of knowing what our options are.

Dr. Steinberg: “We created the elnasexualwellness.com center to deal with all of that, we brought in a sex therapist, we looked at all the recent research and technology that’s been out there…beyond just the “blue pill”, we gathered the best of it, we put together a great team…so now for men, we have brought in 2 newest techniques: one is PRP and the other one is the ultra sonic waves of the penis… It’s an easy procedure, series of six to twelve treatments and causes re growth of the blood vessels…we have started to see great results…”

Roee: “I think the feeling of being inadequate, the anxiety that it can create in a relationship, in an existing one or a new one can be extreme…for both men and woman and we have seen a lot of that change with these new treatments and just listening to these patients and making sure that we’re actually addressing the real issues…we try to create a safe environment for people to discuss that…”

When men and women start experiencing these major internal and external changes it affects their sex life, confidence level and ultimately feelings about one self. Thankfully, such treatments exist which can help not only reignite your own fire but also throw some sparks into your relationship, adding major fuel to your love life.

Roee: “We have the Diva treatment for woman…which is internal…like a laser treatment for the face but for the inside of the vagina, it creates a younger, rejuvenated environment …creates more wetness…less pain during sex…all the collagen, the tightened skin, the circulation is also much better…it’s a much healthier, younger vaginal wall…this happens with a lot of women in their 30’s not just women in their 50’s…we have solutions…”

Cheryl: “It’s that confidence level that gets depleted and stops us from moving ahead…”

Dr Steinberg: “If your mind starts to wonder…it becomes a vicious cycle… the mind is a terrible killer of the sexual move for sure…these treatments bring back the tissue to healthier days…we’re trying to get people back to how things were ten or twenty years ago…”

Roee: “The treatment is not painful… patients feel sexier…it’s life changing treatments…we’ve had patients that haven’t had sex…in five years and longer and suddenly it changes everything and the fear is gone…it changes their outlook…”

Christine: “I did the treatment…It’s a laser, there was nothing negative about it, and for me it was quite painless.  I’m all about rejuvenation…when I heard that it could bring me back to how I used to be as far as lubrication to my early 20’s, that was an amazing thought…and it did… my body was changing …if I can help bring back what I had before my children, I wanna be the best that I can be…”

There are different types of treatments to help us feel youthful. As much as confidence truly starts from within and it’s important to love and accept who we are as individuals, there’s nothing wrong with wanting to maintain looking our best at any age. It’s important to do whatever makes us feel good about ourselves and give us a boost when we need it!

Cheryl: “We need to feel confident in our lives, with our partners or the partners that we hope to attract… I encourage people to do things that make them feel better…and I actually feel better…”

Sibel: “To eliminate localized body fat, we can work any part of the body…lipocavitation is a new technology and the machine that I’m using is the best that we can find in the world, giving the best results…from Italy… one of the most expensive machines…it doesn’t hurt any organs….every session you lose one centimeter…for those who can’t get rid of stubborn fat…they get results …I feel like a magician…I make people happy …we work from the face to the toes… tightening, lifting…without surgery, it’s non evasive, without surgery…no pain, no scars…”

Cheryl: “My body changed and I’m a thin woman…I went in, laid down, it was painless and five sessions later, I had five centimeters that had changed in my body.”

Luckily with modern technology, we have access to all kinds of information. So do your homework, see what your needs are, consult a specialist that can guide you. Also, make sure that whatever you do to your body is to please yourself and no one else. These treatments are your gift to YOU! Your partner will be a benefactor as a result. LOVE yourself first and your true reflection in the mirror!

 If you need any dating advice or my support in your love life, please do not hesitate to reach out to me 1-844-744-SOLO (7656). I promise to keep you on your toes, “up to date” and feeling like you can be sexy at any age!

Cheryl xo