Meet Susan Alper

 

Montreal has many matchmaking services but there is only one Susan. This savvy businesswoman is hip, smart and connected. I know many people who have met their “match” due to Susan’s connection. Who will be next? Stand in line… I’m up next!

Here are the answers to some of the questions I recently asked Susan Alper:

GUIDE TO DATING IN MONTREAL

Most romantic date spot:  Anyplace is romantic when there is a spark and chemistry.

Worst date spot: First date, movie theater.

Best lunch spot for a date:  I don’t recommend lunch dates… People are usually too stressed out and it turns out to be a speed dating scene…  Not too much fun!

Best dinner spot for a date: It depends on the couples preference… my suggestion is always somewhere that you can hear each other talk and not have to yell… Don’t want the couple to lose their voices on the first date!

Best cocktails spot for a date: Don’t drink more than two please… It gets ugly when people start to slur their words on a first date.

Best public area (museum, park, etc) to scout for eligible singles: Dog Runs… Everyone is there looking for unconditional love…

Top club/bar that caters to mature clientele: There is something in the works coming soon for mature people…

DATING PHILOSOPHIES

1. In your opinion, what’s the best scenario for a first date (time/place/activity)?

I suggest evenings when people can unwind and be less stressed out… suggest something that both people feel comfortable doing… it’s important to feel safe.

1. What are the telltale signs that somebody is not for you?

You want to run like Forest Gump!

1. Who calls who? What is the etiquette following a first date?

I think men should call. No texting please… you can text after the date to let the other know you are interested in seeing him or her again.

1. What do you most recommend a person wears on a first date?

Something clean, simple, no running shoes… and make sure that you have clean fingernails, your hair looks good and no food stuck in your teeth please!

1. What’s the best way to break the ice when meeting someone for the first time?

It depends if the first break of ice is on the phone or in person. On the phone is a good start to see if there is some kind of compatibility or not.  In person… you can start with a warm smile and handshake.