Tag: Dating


How does a superhero find love?

How does a superhero find love?

A male subscriber wrote me this letter expressing his personal views on being single at 40.  Here’s what he thinks.  Dear Cheryl, We’ve all heard the quote “Women are from Venus and Men are from Mars” and as my years pass the wisdom of this expression rings truer. Regardless of what side of the fence you sit on, the one thing that I am certain...

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Field Of Dreams!

Field Of Dreams!

Episode 12: Weekly Inspiration    I lay on the plush carpet of the soft green grass in the meadows of my being The sun beating down on my quiet body. The warmth of its rays, like an invisible blanket Nurturing me with all its natural resource. I soak up all its energy, I feel revitalized Oh, how I can rest here forever. The blades of...

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Destination Unknown!

Destination Unknown!

Episode 11: Weekly Inspiration   Brings a new adventure, a journey. We call Life a one-way ticket, it is in our hands and there is no looking back. Our suitcases are filled with freshly cleaned and neatly folded clothes with joyous of excitement. We board the plane, buckle up our seatbelts. Ready for takeoff. The engine of life revs on our plane and is ready to...

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DBT – Dating by texting

DBT – Dating by texting

To date these days we need a whole new set of skills.  It’s making me crazy that the language of romance has been reduced to 3 – 7 capital letters in the form of acronyms. The text is taking over and RMUBAR – Romance is messed up beyond all recognition!   MOTOS N2M MOTSS should learn that texting is a CWOT and will result in...

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My Magic Forest!

My Magic Forest!

Episode 10: Weekly Inspiration    Come step beyond the green grass of the meadows Into the magic of my shadows Hear the music of the wind that blows through the branches of my trees Trees that are standing tall at attention protecting all the creatures that live in my kingdom As you peek through the surrounding bushes let your eyes focus, as they witness the natural...

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Talk to me Tuesdays- Paul’s Story

Talk to me Tuesdays- Paul’s Story

I invite all of you to join me in sharing our stories with each other. Please fill out this survey and maybe you will be next week’s Talk To Me Tuesdays featured love story! Share your thoughts at the Love Quest Survey. Meet Paul. A man in his 50s from Dorval. Here are his Love Quest Survey Answers (you can always tell by the length of...

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Wednesday Wisdom

Wednesday Wisdom

As the sun comes up. I take a leap of faith. No need to catch me. I know my future is coming up behind me. It feels good to be fearless and free. It is time to be me. Now come and find me – I’m here. By Cheryl Besner


Happy New Year!

Happy New Year!

I wish to thank everyone I knew before the start of my 365-day journey and those who have crossed my path since then, for being part of my wonderful adventure throughout 2018. The relationships I have experienced are the essence of what has helped to bring me to this peaceful space within myself. I have learned so much from all my connections with each person along...

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Pillow Talk with Cheryl – Your Sky Has No Limits!

Pillow Talk with Cheryl – Your Sky Has No Limits!

Episode 7: Weekly Inspiration    We sit in silence…..reflecting on who we are….what did I do today and what will I do tomorrow.  Curious to know what awaits the awakening of a new day when the sun comes up.   Tonight …. imagine the dark sky is a canvas only you can paint ….all the different shades of black…blue….maybe hues of grey ….the endless night...

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Pillow Talk with Cheryl – In The Absence of FEAR!

Pillow Talk with Cheryl – In The Absence of FEAR!

Episode 2: Weekly Inspiration Can we possibly obliterate fear? What does the word really mean? What is FEAR? Why have we let four simple letters stand in our way at times? Imagine if the energy we consumed when we are frightened by the dark was instead used to power forth our beam of light! Are you ready to put fear into action instead of having...

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